Slowly working on it.

I had a bit of a burnout from going out six days in a row. It’s a bizarre phenomenon but it happens to me sometimes. So last week I approached only nine women (4+5), taking great care not to overtrain.

I am very reluctant to quit for even a week. I’ve felt the burnout before, when systematically practicing night game. At times I’ve persisted and at other times I’ve quit. Quitting leads nowhere. So I have to work not harder, but smarter than before.

Today I did ten. I was very concerned about overtraining, but I turned this sensitivity into an advantage: I made less of an effort in each interaction. Everything felt healthier. Two numbers. One with a boyfriend! But I really believed I was a better option for her.

Now it’s late and I have to get up early, some construction guys are coming to do something to my window. May they live forever.


I have previously worried about starting to be known by young girls in the center.

I have also worried that if I accidentally make a creepy or insulting approach, WORD WILL GET AROUND.

Today, I didn’t care. It was not an unpleasant feeling. May it last forever.


Stats, 22.5.2018:

Approaches: 175
Instant dates: 3
Contact info: 34
First dates: 2
Lays: 1


One thought on “Grinding

  1. Hey man. This is awesome!
    I am from the UK (Leeds) and would love to chill and game with you for a bit when I’m in Helsinki in August. Hit me up if you’re interested.


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